Do you want a long relationship
Speak all the grievances

There is no place for understatement

If we are silent about what we do not like in the behavior of our partner, we are offended, sulky, angry, this begins to slowly but surely corrode the relationship. Talk about anything you don't like. After all, there is no other simpler, direct and effective way to correct each other's behavior and improve everyday life. But! Find the right time, place, calmness of the partner for this conversation and use "I-statements". For example, “I'm angry when you; I am offended if; I am sad when you are; it is unpleasant for me when you are, ”and so on.

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